Thursday, March 23, 2006

Moveable marriages

Attended a talk organised by outpost today titled ' Moveable Marriages'. Fascinating facts esp as the speaker touched on quite a few things which really hit home. Among the points she higlighted:
1. Lost of income n financial independence
2. Career halt
3. Need to adjust to single income i.e. SINKY from DINKY
4. Communication

Well, I must admit I really do miss my financial independence, hubbyhas been fab - he lets me buy whatever I want within reason but I can't do it. Since everytime, I pick something up - I feel that I need to justify to him why i bought it. Just saying that I wanted it I feel is not enough a reason.Presently, the only reason I will go back to work is becoz of my financial independence...:))

At the end of the day, communication is the key to a lasting marriage. Syukur Alhamdullillah, we have managed to be able to communicate well. We learnt that esp during our 1st year of marriage..

I admit I used to get angry that he cud not pick up the phone to ring n wud prefer to email but now..I have gotten quite used to that.

On a lighter note, it's the last week of March and it is still COLD!!! The official spring day was a couple of days ago and it was 5 deg that day:)) I really can't wait for spring but am not looking forward to my hay fever..c'est la vie!!Yes! Human...never satisfied:))





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